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Meeting and Greeting: A Cheerful Face, the Salaam, and the Handshake

The invi2 team · 2 min read

The first thing a guest meets at your occasion is a cheerful face, the salaam, and a handshake. The etiquette of meeting, arranged and made simple.

A Meeting That Opens Hearts

At your occasion loved ones meet, and the first thing that honours a guest is a cheerful face and a gracious greeting; Islam gave this meeting adab that open hearts before doors.

The meeting of a Muslim by his brother and his handshake carry a comprehensive adab; we have gathered for you those that adorn the welcoming of your guests.

Islam gave the Muslim's meeting of his brother an etiquette: a cheerful face, the salaam, and a handshake, so affection is planted from the first glance.

Written by Abdulaziz Nada

A Cheerful Face and a Smile

The first adab of meeting is that you meet your brother with an open face; a smile is a charity that brings joy and dispels estrangement.

Your smiling in the face of your brother is a charity for you.

Reported by al-Tirmidhi, from Abu Dharr

Verified against the source

How beautiful it is that the guests of your occasion be received with cheerful faces that make them feel they are family and loved.

Spreading the Salaam

Among the greatest adab of meeting is spreading the salaam; it is the greeting of Islam that spreads love and joins hearts, and Allah commanded that it be returned with better.

And when you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with one better than it, or return it.

Qur'an, al-Nisa 4:86

Verified against the Mus’haf

Spread the salaam among yourselves.

Reported by Muslim, from Abu Hurayrah

Verified against the source

The Handshake at Meeting

And the completion of the meeting is the handshake between those who meet in affection; it removes rancour and lightens sins.

There are no two Muslims who meet and shake hands but that they are forgiven before they part.

Reported by Abu Dawud and al-Tirmidhi, from al-Bara ibn Azib

Verified against the source

And the handshake is within the bounds the Sacred Law permits, so a man does not shake hands with a woman who is not his mahram.

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